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Breaking News: New Study does NOT show ‘Sleep Training Babies Causes no Lasting Damage’

September 11, 2012

Yesterday a new study appeared in the AAP’s journal Pediatrics which effectively declared controlled crying to have no ill effects for babies (or parents for that matter). The study was understandably pounced on by the mainstream media and my email hasn’t stopped pinging for the last 24hrs!

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I have spent the last day trying to get hold of the full paper, not least because I have confidently announced in my imminently to be published book that I don’t believe controlled crying (and other sleep training) is consistent with the needs of babies and that to date no (good quality) research has (in my opinion) proven its lack of lasting damage, talk about timing hey?! More than that though I genuinely cannot understand how any research worth its weight can confidently say that there are no lasting effects of this form of detachment parenting. So anyway I’d like to say a big thank you to Cathy for sending me the full paper today.

I’d like to get this blog up as quickly as possible, so bear with me as in all likelihood this means it will be incredibly badly written and read like a bit of a stream of my thoughts as I read through the paper. I’ll do my best to sum up at the end.

The study opens with this paragraph:

“Behavioral techniques effectively reduce infant sleep problems and associated maternal depression in the short- to medium-term (4–16 months’ postintervention). Despite their effectiveness, theoretical concerns persist about long-term harm on children’s emotional development, stress regulation, mental health, and the child-parent relationship. “

Behavioral sleep techniques did not cause long-lasting harms or benefits to child, child-parent, or maternal outcomes. Parents and health professionals can feel comfortable about using these techniques to reduce the population burden of infant sleep problems and maternal depression.”

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Potential Methodology Issues Not addressed in the Study:

  • Sleep problems were ‘parent reported’, at 7mths a questionnaire was given with the question “Over the last 2 weeks has your child’s sleep generally been a problem for you?” 47% of respondents answered ‘yes’ and thus became eligible for trial inclusion. The ‘problem’ was not elaborated upon and I would have liked to have seen more questioning to ascertain exactly what the problems were, what had been tried until that point, what information the parents had received and what support had they received up until that point in those first important 7months as this time period could have a big effect.
  • The sample (out of those reported sleep problems) was selected by the researchers, I can find no mention of how they were selected and what other criteria was looked into in terms of the infant’s/family history/psychological wellbeing until that point.
  • Parents must have been open to the idea of sleep training to agree enrollment in the study, would this therefore mean that their opinions/beliefs were reflected in other parenting practices?
  • Training was carried out on babies 8-10months of age so cannot be applied to any infants younger than this. It also does not tell us the effects of training on older children/toddlers.
  • Parents were able to choose the type of sleep training used – either gradual extinction (what you and I know as controlled crying) or gradual withdrawal (parent starting out sitting with child and moving further away but involving no crying) – though no distinction was made between the type of sleep training used and later impact in the results.
  • Control/Intervention group allocation was blinded only to researchers not parents (understandably it would be tricky to be blinded to parents – but I wonder how knowledge that they were in the intervention group affected parental perception).
  • The control group visited the same nurses and were free to ask for sleep advice, but the nurses in these control groups were not trained to offer specific sleep training advice, however what advice did they give? Pretty much any parent I know could give controlled crying instructions without special training, do we know that they didn’t give similar advice to the intervention group? I cannot find this information out and to me from this point in the study loses all credibility for me – Do we know what the control group did sleep wise? We know they reported that they had had a problem with their child’s sleep in order to enter the study, so it’s pretty likely that they would want to do *something* – were they followed up and questioned and asked exactly what they did do? Again I can find no mention – How do we know that a large majority of the control group DIDN’T sleep train?
  • Outcomes were measure by cortisol samples, taken at 6yrs of age (why on earth would they take them at 6year of age?! I find this very confusing and not at all relevant? From what I can see the first follow up – and potential cortisol testing was at 10 months, yet the concerns over stress to infants from sleep training is during and in the immediate aftermath of the training, a sample taken 2 months up to 5 years later seems bizarre? Where is the cortisol sample DURING and IMMEDIATELY after the training? This is the one that matters IMO).
  • Child emotional questionnaires and ‘quality of life’ questionnaires were parent reported (and occasionally child reported) – meaning that parents filled in the questionnaires giving their own opinions. We know questionnaire reporting is notoriously unreliable with two main factors – 1) wanting to tell the investigator what they want to hear and 2) sticking to ‘middle of the road’ answers, i will add in 3) here – what parent will want to report that they feel their child has an emotional/behavioural difficulty? Especially not when they have been enrolled into a trial looking into the effects their early parenting may have had upon these. I find it very hard to determine whether the measures of psychological wellbeing were all parent reported as the results are very vague, but if I were to make an assumption I would guess that the majority were parent reported. Child reporting surely would include bias – what child would say negative things about their parents in front of said parents?
  • In terms of parenting style (and thus I presume eluding to bonding too?) the researchers appear to feel that “authoritative parenting” (high warmth, high control) is optimal parenting whereas what they call permissive parenting (high warmth, low control) is sub-optimal. I would argue that having “high control” over children is NOT optimal parenting, or indeed respectful parenting and am not convinced at all that highly controlling parents are those exhibiting the most healthy parenting style. I would like to see how they define “high and low control” and look to see how many initial “permissive parents” morphed into “authoritative parents” from the intervention group as a result of the training undertaken, this information though is not provided.
  • Nearly a third of the sample were lost to follow up (31%) – that’s a BIG number and a major limitation – what if they didn’t agree/respond to follow up because they found the intervention traumatic/it didn’t work for them/it went against their instinct?

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Perhaps the most interesting part of this research to me those is this:

“There was no evidence that a population based targeted intervention that effectively reduced parent-reported sleep problems and maternal depression during infancy had long-lasting harmful or beneficial effects on child, childparent, or maternal outcomes by 6 years of age. Thus, this trial indicates that behavioral techniques are safe to use in the long-term to at least 5 years.”

Read that again, I’m pretty certain I dispute their claim that it has no long lasting harmful effects given the parental reporting, strange timing of cortisol testing, lack of information on what techniques the control group used, promotion of authoritative/controlling parenting as the optimum type, lack of information of life before 7 months of age (or in fact not much about life afterwards aside from financial questioning – what about childcare for a start) and lack of in-depth information about bonding (why no Ainsworth ‘Strange Situation’ type testing?). No the most interesting part to me is even with all of the above limitations in mind this research tells us there are NO LASTING BENEFITS to sleep training……Now which paper picked up on that then?! No, thought not.

So what DOES the research tell us?

  • There is still NO evidence that shows controlled crying under 8 months of age has no ill effects
  • The results did NOT differentiate between the different types of sleep training used (e.g: No Cry V Crying related options) in the results, therefore we do not know about the individual methods and their outcomes, only ‘sleep training’ as a broad label of many different types of training.
  • That sleep training does NOT have lasting positive effects on a child’s sleep behaviour
  • That nearly 50% of parents still have problems with their baby’s sleep by 7months of age (hey, perhaps that’s because it is NORMAL infant sleep and our expectations are incorrect)
  • That 31% of parents for some reason did not agree to follow up with the researchers
  • That parents tell researchers that they did not feel that sleep training affected their child negatively (tell me something new).
  • That controlled crying DOES work in the short term (I don’t think this has ever been disputed?).
  • That concerns over the effect of controlled crying on babies are still very valid, particularly in light of the recent Middlemiss study (that measured cortisol levels DURING training, not 5yrs later!) – A good summary of the concerns of sleep training can be read HERE.
  • That a whole lot more health professionals and  ’baby experts’ are going to use this as arsenal to tell parents that there are no concerns with sleep training involving baby crying, that it’s a good thing to do, even if it feels wrong to them, as parents, to do it.

Sigh………..

Sarah (Mum to Four, Parenting Author and Founder of BabyCalm Ltd)

You can read more of Sarah’s articles HERE.

 

Reference:

Price. A, Wake. M, Ukoumunne. O and Hiscock. H. ’Five-Year Follow-up of Harms and Benefits of Behavioral Infant Sleep Intervention: Randomized Trial’ Pediatrics;  September 10, 2012;

45 Comments leave one →
  1. melissa permalink
    September 11, 2012 2:16 pm

    ohhhhh…god. *said in the style of Blackadder, facepalming*. You can just imagine gina, tizzie, jo et al fistpumping the air and preparing for their next press releases, can’t you. thanks sarah- great job of breaking down the report for someone whose brain is just tired of this rubbish.

  2. September 11, 2012 2:21 pm

    What a paper! I had to scroll back up the page and double check that you said these were methodology issues *not* addressed in the study when I read about the blinding. Surely every researcher should address why the intervention was not double-blinded and what the implications of that could be, even if, like you said, double-blinding would be difficult if not impossible. Also completely agree with you about wanting to know what were the control group doing and what advice was being given.
    Thanks so much for pointing out the issues with this study, and sharing why this might actually *not* be the end-all and be-all in terms of sleep training. (shock!)

  3. September 11, 2012 2:22 pm

    Thanks Sarah. My thoughts are echoed here. How many parents are going to look at their 6YO and say “you know what sleep training really screwed them up”.
    The problem here is that on the whole society deems frequent wakening a ‘problem’ and mild attachment issues ‘normal’. So why are new parents going to go against the societal norm in their reporting?

  4. Bianca permalink
    September 11, 2012 7:11 pm

    I am SO frustrated and angry reading this. I cannot believe the irresponsibilty of the media, like last year when they quoted research which said there was no difference between breast and bottle – funded by oh, the FORMULA MILK companies. All those poor children that will be affected by this continuation of erroneous socially conditioned beliefs

  5. Melissa permalink
    September 11, 2012 11:55 pm

    I also was very frustrated when I read the study quickly yesterday, prompted by at least 2 phone calls (including one from my partner) saying that “see, controlled crying is fine, and it works, you should be using it”. I actually ended up so angry I called the media contact person at the research institute and told her I believed they were misrepresenting the paper’s findings in the media. The biggest thing that stood out for me was that there were no differences between the groups in terms of sleep outcomes or parent depression, anxiety, and stress, yet the lead author was busy telling everyone who would listen that controlled crying works! The media person tried to argue that it works at 2 years, but that is clearly from a separate paper, not this one, so still misrepresenting the findings of this study.

    The other issue I had was their use of an unvalidated (by their own admission in the Discussion) measure of cortisol.

    Bad research, badly misrepresented to the media. Shame on the researchers, and good on you for putting together this nice summary of the problems with the study.

  6. Janette permalink
    September 12, 2012 2:55 am

    Just having had a baby, that picture you have up of that baby crying makes me want to cry! I can’t stand it :(

  7. jacksmom725 permalink
    September 12, 2012 5:19 am

    Amen! If only more parents would trust their instincts!

  8. Tricia Sheeran permalink
    September 12, 2012 5:22 am

    No lasting harm my arse! It’s been a couple of years and I still can’t get the catatonic look my son had (after being put in his crib to “cry it out”) and how he was quiet, but basically unresponsive to me.

    The sounds of his cries tore me apart. The look on his face tore me apart. Then all was quiet and I sneaked a peek at him. What did I see? My son laying in his crib, staring blankly into space….catatonic. He didn’t blink, he didn’t look at me, he didn’t acknowledge my presence at all until I picked him up. I don’t know if he was asleep with his eyes wide open…all I know is that it scared the hell out of me and I’ll NEVER do it again. Just thinking about it has me all tied up in knots. So yeah, there is a lasting affect and there is harm done.

    Look there is a reason our baby’s cries affect us the way they do…our child NEEDS something and it’s our JOB to provide it. Sure we know they are not in danger from bears and won’t freeze to death like our instincts are wired to protect them from so it’s intellectually OK to leave them in a crib by their self all night. BUT, and here’s the key point, our child does not understand that! They don’t know that it’s safe to be left alone…they are not wired to be left alone–not meant to be left alone! I will never EVER attempt to “Ferberize” another child. It’s cruel. We’re parents now, that means sacrifice and part of what we sacrifice is sleep (in the beginning) and putting ourselves first.

    • Ali permalink
      September 14, 2012 9:16 am

      Oh your story just broke my heart!!!
      I have an 8 month old baby that has woken every 1.5 to 2 hours the entire time and I cant bring myself to try controlled crying. I want to be there for him..even if it’s killing me. Sounds like you had a terrible experience – it’s sooo hard to know what is the right thing to do. x

    • Sonia permalink
      February 17, 2013 9:33 am

      Tricia, i completely agree. I tried to Ferberize my 4 mo old daughter..i was so traumatized. She cried for an hour and didnt fall asleep. I was told ‘she isnt ready’! Her voice got hoarse too! I started to rock her to sleep again! Cant help it even though im told this is bad..the poor little things…

  9. September 12, 2012 7:38 am

    Bit confused, so research did/did not find controlled crying to be beneficial?? Glad I am not a parent/carer of a baby or young child would throw me into further turmoil. I wish I had followed my instincts when my son was a baby but as I HAD to keep him quiet, so I did not parent intstinctively around sleep and I regret this still 21 years later.

    Luckily we have a very good attachment in all other respects but I wish I had just done what I wanted and NOT listened to all the pressure put on me not to pick him up etc. “Authoratative parenting”, such a term strikes terror into my heart for all children as how confusing is high control mixed in with warmth, sure to confuse and induce anxiety, conform and we will show you affection – another whole Blog I feel!!!

    • Rebecca permalink
      September 12, 2012 5:55 pm

      Just wondering what the circumstances were that you HAD to keep your baby quiet? Just curious…

  10. Kim permalink
    September 12, 2012 8:27 am

    Thank you, will be sharing widely :) The way the media has picked up the findings and run with them is incredibly concerning. Not everyone is a scientist, and not all parents are going to understand how to interpret a research paper, so the media has an ethical responsibility to present the truth. Instead, the media are exaggerating these results because they know it causes sensation and ratings. As a result, the baby ‘trainers’ are rubbing their hands together with glee (even though they all claim they *don’t do* controlled crying) and parents are confused.

  11. September 12, 2012 8:36 am

    Thank you for this very critical reading of the paper. It takes time and effort to really trawl through the literature and you have done a fabulous job. I am surprised by the idea that ‘sleep behaviour techniques’ are correlated with lower rates of maternal depression. In my experience, bonding with my baby, bed sharing etc. definitely reduced difficulties for me. Friends who have persisted with ‘sleep behaviour techniques’ have often felt guilty and confused, rather than relieved.

  12. Sharni permalink
    September 12, 2012 8:44 am

    I can’t believe the number of parents that choose to believe so called experts and ‘research’ (if you can call it that) like the above. What ever happened to listening and trusting ones instincts!! Actually parental instinct has probably been drowned out by the all the ‘experts’ and ‘research’ and social peer-pressure that they can’t hear it anyway!! Makes me so mad!!

  13. September 12, 2012 9:03 am

    what I find interesting about this is the different treatments of scientific study: A person who supports AP would probably criticise this study rigorously and dismiss it (as you have done), while accepting studies that support their own beliefs with far less examination (for example, the study most often cited which supports sleep training as being harmful is Dr. Allan Schore’s study of stress hormones and cortisol – even though this study focused on the effects of wholesale abuse and neglect, including leaving a child to cry – which is very different from sleep training in a loving context). I’m not intentionally pushing a viewpoint by the way, just trying to illustrate my point. If you believe you should not let your baby cry, that’s great. If you want to do controlled crying – also fine. Basically, parenting is a mindfield of theories and opinions and pretty short on facts. The problems begin when you try to start broadcasting your personal opinions on the back of some study (which usually only partly addresses your views) because then it becomes less about what your choosing to do and more about what you think others should do. It provides short term validation but sets up long term division – and voila! mummy wars!

  14. zoenix permalink
    September 12, 2012 9:10 am

    Thank you! I was ‘advised’ by health visitors that my 7 month old should now be sleeping through the night, not feeding at night, and if she woke for milk I should give her water instead. They were pretty shocked that I was still feeding her when she asked for it. My husband insisted we try what they said. Until this point we have been either partly or totally co-sleeping (since 4 months) and I have to say she was happy going into her cot, which was great for both of us. However, she wakes at least once a night and offering water results in the predictable soaking wet and howling baby. Leaving her to cry results in a howling baby, rocking and shushing results in a howling baby. Giving milk results in a quickly sleeping, happy baby. Plus of course, said husband continues to snore happily throughout any crying.
    Why are we so keen to have our babies quietly tucked away by a certain age? We grow them and give birth to them, with the full knowledge that babies cry and do not sleep in the night and yet before even a year is up we will agree to leave them to cry themselves to sleep in an absolute state wanting comfort from us. Just because we apparently don’t remember anything before the age of 3 doesn’t mean denying our children the closeness and comfort they obviously need is not harmful.

  15. Kelly permalink
    September 12, 2012 9:22 am

    So are you telling me that, regardless of whether my child is a happy, well cared for and bubbly baby, I should still feel that I have damaged her by using controlled crying? That I should somehow feel I am neglecting her needs despite the fact that she and I are much happier and well rested since using it?

  16. jackiekatsianas permalink
    September 12, 2012 10:24 am

    I apologise if this comment appears twice – I’m not sure if my first attempt got lost or is awaiting moderation.
    You raise some good questions about this study, and it would be interesting to get the answers. I don’t pretend to be an expert on this (just another parent!) but I would say three things:
    (1) I don’t think anyone is advocating leaving a baby in a crib to “cry it out”. There is a big difference between that and the techniques discussed in the study. In controlled crying you leave the baby for VERY short intervals (minutes) and you don’t let them get distressed, and it’s interspersed with comforting or the parent’s presence.
    (2) isn’t the timing of the cortisol sample because the study is looking at long-term effects, not immediate ones?
    (3) babies vary. I get so sick of one-size-fits-all advice on both sides of this debate. All babies struggle against a “routine”, but a routine does benefit most of them (and their families). Some babies are much harder to settle than others, and parents use different techniques for different babies, including forms of controlled crying. This is still “listening to your instincts”.

    I’m not in favour of strict routines by the way – I think in the first few weeks especially you have to go with your baby. But most parents including me have tried some form of these techniques at some stage and I don’t think they do harm.

  17. Missy permalink
    September 12, 2012 12:38 pm

    Just would like to point out 2 things in the summary of The Murdoch Children’s Research Institute, who ran the study. They say:

    “We don’t think that babies are developmentally ready before six months. Six months is around the age that children understand that something still exists when it is out of sight. Using these techniques before that age will probably not make sense to a baby.” (ie, they don’t support controlled crying prior to 6 months.)

    “Controlled comforting is not the same as crying-it-out. Crying-it-out involves putting a baby to bed and leaving them for the whole night, even if the baby is crying, before returning at morning time. We do not recommend using crying-it-out”.(ie, they don’t support crying it out).

    It would be helpful if the media gave us a link to the paper itself… All we’re left with is chinese whispers and everyone elses opinion of the thing itself!

  18. Missy permalink
    September 12, 2012 12:41 pm

    One more thing to add – please could you include the link to the Institute, and the actual paper?

    http://www.mcri.edu.au/news/2012/september/%27controlled-comforting%E2%80%99-is-effective-and-safe.aspx

  19. September 12, 2012 12:43 pm

    Dear AAP, I have two words for you.

    Yeah, those were the words.

  20. Toni permalink
    September 12, 2012 1:07 pm

    I don’t get this. It is so easy to teach your baby to self soothe and fall a sleep without allowing them to cry it out. I think it’s the beginnings of independence to be able to go to bed and get to sleep. Too many adults have sleep problems.

    • Jen permalink
      September 16, 2012 11:53 pm

      And if you take 5 seconds to realise the people who are currently adults were parented pretty much mainstream including the sleep training, perhaps you’ll put 2 and 2 together and wonder where those sleep problems come from.

  21. September 12, 2012 1:38 pm

    Typical biased research paper IMO. However, I also agree with jackiekatsianas being ‘so sick of one-size-fits-all advice on both sides of this debate.’ I am a co-sleeping, attachment parenting type but I respect that different parenting styles suit different familes. Babies have individual personalities and preferences, as do parents. I don’t think it is helpful to label all parents who use routines as ‘bad’ or ‘ill-formed’.

  22. September 12, 2012 1:55 pm

    I guess I’m strange, because I used controlled crying with my now 6 year old when she was 6 months old, and I can look at our relationship now and see the damage I did. I understand how hard that is to do, if someone had said to me even 3 years ago that I may have damaged her brain I would probably have cursed at them, or said ‘but she slept?!’ When we know better, we do better, so thank you for addressing the recent ‘study’, I have shared and will continue to share.

  23. September 12, 2012 6:58 pm

    Thank-you for this. The next person who tells me I should stop co-sleeping and let ne baby cry shall be directed here!
    x

  24. September 12, 2012 7:09 pm

    Hi all, thanks for your comments, I’m sorry I haven’t replied to you all individually – today has been a little crazy and I just don’t have the time, I have read all of them, so thank you, it’s good to read so many differing opinions.

  25. September 12, 2012 8:54 pm

    I LOVE the commemt from “me” said everything I wanted. Hows about parents stop judging eachother and put their efforts into raising awareness about actual abuse, rather than making anyone who doesn’t AP or breatfeed out to be a monster? Enough. Don’t know why I read this (although I must admit – couldn’t get to the end. Tired of opinionated claptrap.)

    • Kelly permalink
      September 12, 2012 9:18 pm

      Couldn’t have said it better ‘waterbirthplease’! This article is judgemental of any mother who chooses to do things differently. Obviously we all have our child’s best interest at heart. If controlled crying doesn’t appeal to you, don’t use it. But don’t attack those that do and attempt to make them feel they are neglecting their child. Ridiculous.

  26. fimail permalink
    September 13, 2012 1:04 am

    Whilst this is useful this http://blogs.babycenter.com/mom_stories/misleading-headlines-letting-babies-cry-it-out-wont-cause-lasting-harm/ might be a more helpful discussion of the research. It points out that the researchers gave the group studied advice on various forms of sleep training, not all of which included controlled crying, and parents then had the choice of the various options they were given. Ie not all the people in the ‘sleep training’ group did controlled crying, and they did not ask the ‘control’ group what they did.

  27. Emma permalink
    September 13, 2012 1:18 am

    Thanks for this post. It’s so great to read that my instincts that CC WAS the best thing for my baby don’t ‘count’ as real instincts, and that I don’t even know what sleep problems are, and my main problem is unrealistic expectations! Just fabulous to know that parents like me who are at the end of their rope and get help with major sleep issues can then also face unreasonable judgement about the medical assistance to rectify the problems. Cheers!

  28. L'lee permalink
    September 17, 2012 2:31 am

    Thanks for the thoughtful analysis.

    To those who think that the author is judging you or saying that you are causing damage to your child, I disagree. The author is judging this study, which is clearly biased in saying that controlled crying is safe but it really does not prove it, and she is judging the media for passing along this flawed message. The truth is WE DON’T KNOW if there is long term damage caused by controlled crying, because there is just not enough information to prove this! There is a difference here! We need to have more studies done by people who are not interested in a particular outcome. It is irresponsible for the authors to claim that this study proves anything about the safety of controlled crying. I would like to see more studies done, because I believe that we just don’t have enough information, but these studies need to be done responsibly! Logically, NOT proving that something is harmful is NOT the same thing as PROVING that something is safe.

    Think about it this way: for a long time, we didn’t know that smoking caused cancer. (After a while, some people did know, and cigarette companies suppressed the information.) Eventually, it became clear that cigarettes DO cause cancer, because we had enough undeniable data. Cigarettes caused cancer the whole time, but we just didn’t know at first.

  29. September 17, 2012 11:48 pm

    Thank you so much for your evidenced based approach to parenting. I was furious to see this news article attempt to legitimise controlled crying based on “flawed research”. University researchers have a responsibility to society to conduct their research based on the existing research and extend the findings not take them backwards! I am an associate professor at the University of Sydney, Business School and when I became a parent I was shocked at how little research was available for everyday parents to base their parenting decisions. So, on my materinity leave I invited experts from neuroscience, biology, psychology and other areas of expertise to contribute their knowledge and their personal practical experience on raising children based on the latest research in these areas. For those interested in reading this the book is called Inspired Children: how the leading minds of today raise their kids
    I am a mum I want to know how to raise a happy, healthy and well balanced child, these experts helped me do this. Heart-felt thanks for this blog. I will share it on twitter and facebook to get your message out. I am so passionate about turning the science of child development into the art of parenting…so every parent can make informed parenting decisions…and every child has the best possible start in life!
    Dr Rosina McAlpine-Mladenovic

  30. Annabelle permalink
    October 10, 2012 10:31 pm

    It saddens me so much that as a race we even have debates like this; that we even discuss leaving our babies to cry, on their own; that we even have studies to ascertain the harmful effects, or not, of leaving our young on their own to cry. I mean, what are we doing?!

    I think that the human race, in general, are so far up their intellectual backsides that we’ve lost all common sense and instinct. We’re so stuck in the mental realm intellectualising, totally lost in studies, debates, pros and cons.

    Why are we even debating practices like this?!! Have our lives become so complicated, so dictated by time, routine, schedule, money that we even CONSIDER leaving our young to cry.

  31. October 22, 2012 9:46 pm

    Hi Everyone & greetings from Australia.

    Best wishes for many book sales Sarah!

    I mostly agree with Annabelle (previous post) & think that bottom-line, this issue is, among other things, a sad reflection on modern societies.

    Readers may also be interested in the following:

    (1) Murdoch Childrens Research Institute (full version):

    Five-Year Follow-up of Harms and Benefits of Behavioral Infant Sleep Intervention: Randomized Trial
    https://docs.google.com/open?id=0B45lnxVz8-RQU2I5SU5HQVByaTA

    Podcast interview with author + Article: http://mpegmedia.abc.net.au/local/melbourne/babytalk/201209/r1007293_11308916.mp3

    (2) Research abstract by Wendy Middlemiss PhD – Aug 2011 (Try not to let the title scare you off!):

    Asynchrony of mother–infant hypothalamic–pituitary–adrenal axis activity following extinction of infant crying responses induced during the transition to sleep. Early Human Development, 88 (4), 227-232. http://www.earlyhumandevelopment.com/article/S0378-3782(11)00270-2/abstract

    Podcast interview with author + Article:
    http://mpegmedia.abc.net.au/local/melbourne/babytalk/201206/r960289_10323183.mp3

    (3) The Dangers of Crying It Out – Dec 2011
    http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/moral-landscapes/201112/dangers-crying-it-out

    (4) What the Recent Research on “Cry it Out” Doesn’t Tell Us – Oct 2012
    http://www.secretsofbabybehavior.com/2012/10/what-recent-research-on-cry-it-out.html

    (5) First, Do No Harm: A Critique of Recent Research on “Controlled Crying” – Part 1
    http://lactationmatters.org/2012/10/16/first-do-no-harm-part-1/

    (6) First, Do No Harm: A Critique of Recent Research on “Controlled Crying” – Part 2
    http://lactationmatters.org/2012/10/18/first-do-no-harm-part-2/

    I would like to add that although agreeing wholeheartedly with what the author of (5) & (6) above is saying, I find the reference in Part 2 to a German obstetrician’s comments re Nazis both inappropriate and unnecessary.

    Kind Regards, Julieanne
    Lactation Consultant IBCLC
    Blog: LifeBeginsLactation

    • October 23, 2012 8:14 am

      What a great list, thanks for sharing Julieanne!
      Sarah

  32. March 3, 2013 8:43 pm

    My name is Cara . My son is about to turn 7 months. I have never let him cry, but my problem is he used to sleep on me or my husband for naps so now we are putting him in his crib. He does cry. But I go and check on him. I make sure all of his needs are met. I pick him up a couple of times. But after I give him 10 to 15 minutes before I check. Then I just give him his binkie and pat him. At night time we never let him cry it out though. I always feed him or change his diaper. But sometimes when I put him back in the crib at night he sometimes does a short little cry then goes to sleep. I was wondering if you guys had any advice on how to make this better. Lots of people say it is ok for babies to cry it out including health care providers, I don’t agree to a point. thanks for the help.

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